Memorial services in Unitarian Universalist traditions are generally called Celebration of Life.\u00a0The minister will meet with the family and\/or close friends. They will listen to the stories of the family’s\u00a0relationship with their loved one. These stories are\u00a0synthesized into a eulogy.<\/p>\n
A eulogy in Unitarian Universalist services is a reflection and celebration of their life. It is an opportunity to stir memories that affirm the person\u2019s life. A theme may emerge in the stories shared revealing\u00a0a valuable legacy to those present. The minister highlights values this person held dear throughout their life. They indirectly asks those present to consider emulating these values as a living memorial to the person.<\/p>\n
Favorite music, poems, and other readings are\u00a0incorporated into the memorial service. Especially relevant are selections that are the person’s favorite.<\/p>\n
The family may want members of their family and friends to offer remembrances of their loved one. Suggest having people chosen in advance to share. Remembrances should be brief. One\u00a0or\u00a0two memories that capture the person\u2019s personality and love for the person are sufficient to paint a picture.\u00a0Keep the length of the remembrance to\u00a0one typed page about 350-450 words maximum.<\/p>\n
Following these suggestions results in a service that is warm and affirming.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Memorial services in Unitarian Universalist traditions are generally called Celebration of Life.\u00a0The minister will meet with the family and\/or close friends. They will listen to the stories of the family’s\u00a0relationship with their loved one. These stories are\u00a0synthesized into a eulogy.<\/p>\n